Advice Of The Week

Good Day Meanies,

Surround yourself with people who will support your dating aims. Don’t sabotage this by sitting around with friends who are negative about love and relationships (often the married ones). Start attending social functions frequented by singles. Sitting alongside couples at dinner parties in suburbia is not necessarily where you need to be right now.

Sexual Position Of The Week

Hey Meanies,

This is the "Randy Raft". If you like to bone in the pool, river , lake etc give this a try. My only question is why the name RANDY had to be used...lol :-)

Crazy Night With A Lil Bit Of A Good Deed

Hola Meanies,

This week I have been very busy traveling from CT to NYC for events 3 days in a
row. I am tiredddd !!!!!! :-) Don't get me wrong I love NYC but I need a break.

Any who let's get down to the business. Last night bestsie & I went to Subterraneo, an underground Dia de los Muertos-themed affair celebrating both the life eternal and the birth of Jose Cuervo Tradicional. It was cool and interesting. I was very grateful for not being suffocated. We left around 12:45am so we can catch the last train to CT the 1:49am. First off there was some heavy ass traffic down 42nd street, at one point we didn't know if we were going to make it.

As usual the late night/early morning trains 12am-2am contains mostly drunkpassengers. Before getting on the train 3 guys were already going at it. Well because we are so special those 3 guys decided to sit in the same train cart as us. Just shy of 3 stops before our stop Bridgeport, a fight breaks out on the train between those 3 guys. 2 friends against one guy.

Don't get me wrong, the single guy was running his mouth but he walked away. The 2 friends decided that they wanted to fight. Well guys there was no one on one, apparently that still doesn't exist. The 2 friends jumped the one guy in the vestibule.

I was not expecting them to physically fight. I saw the fight and immediately went to get the conductor at the back of the train in the next train cart. The train was stopped immediately. By the time I got back to my cart the fight stopped. But when I saw the single guy, my heart was beating really fast. His face was bloody beyond belief. All I saw was rage in his eyes. Who wouldn't feel that way knowing you got jumped and your girlfriend got hurt in the process.

We were suppose to reach Bridgeport at 3:15am, didn't arrive until 3:45. I'm sure you're saying "I'm sure they are glad to get off that train", of course !!! But guess what ? Shit was just getting started. We got off the train and couldn't leave the train station/platform because it's closed. If you guys don't know my bestsie is in a wheel chair. So I'm saying to myself I can't carry that 600lbs chair down the stairs.

Now we have taken the 1:49am from Grand Central a gazillion times & the doors to leave the station are open. Last night was the first time EVER that I called 911 because bestsie said so. I was on hold for about 10 mins thank god we weren't actually hurt. Low & behold there are security guards in the train station 24/7. WTH !!!

I wish we would of known this because I would've definitely been banging down the door. Now we know if this scenario was ever to happen again don't call 911 bang on the security door.

This is usually what our life consists of, weird/sad/crazy situations. My bestsie says God was testing us, could it be ? I don't know but I feel extremely bad for the guy that got jumped. Seeing someone get hurt like that in front of your eyes is not a good feeling.

I was telling myself that if I didn't go get the conductor they would of fought and we would be home and not calling 911 to let us out of the station. I was told you did a good deed, you saved a innocent persons life tonight. Some ppl wouldn't do what you did. I'm all messed up :-( Sometimes you have that feeling I did a good deed, why do I feel so bad ?

Only in NEW YORK !!!!!!

Hey Meanies,

I'm tired of seeing African Americans fight over stupid things. I say fight because someone hit you first, not because they didn't move over for you to see down or someone looked at you wrong. You look extremely stupid and uncivilized. I'm sure these people have children as well. What great examples they're setting.

Sexual Position of the Week :-D

Hola Meanies,

This is "Rock His Boat". I must say this looks uncomfortable, but if you want to try go ahead. Maybe the water thrashing under the boat will magnify the intensity. Just guessing lol. Enjoy & WRAP IT UP !!!!!

Advice Of The Week

Good Day Meanies,

Think about what you want to gain from dating and what timeframes you expect. Do you see yourself married within 2 years? If you do, then approach dating accordingly. If you are more laid back and don't take dating too seriously then ask yourself some honest questions about why you are dating and what you hope to achieve. If it is purely sex then ask yourself if you are about to be honest with those you hope to date.

Advice Of The Week

Good Afternoon Meanies,

Go shopping and treat yourself to new clothes and even a whole new look. Get your image right, one that you can manage and live with, but one that flatters you. Don't try to be someone you’re not, but amplify and accentuate your positives. Throw out those tired jeans, old sweaters or cardigans and spruce yourself up. Your date will appreciate that you demonstrated some effort.