Saturday, July 3, 2010
You Talk Too Much
Beunos Noches Meanies,
Know anyone that talks too much ? I know some folks that don't know how to distinguish personal life and work. There's no reason why everyone at work knows why you didn't come to work, what's going on with your children, or your relationship with a significant other. Yes everyone at some point in there life finds a friend at work that they become close with. BUT there are those ppl that have a close friend but still chooses to tell the whole work place their business.
What's strange is these same people would be the ones to question why others know there business. Exsqueeze me ? Did you not open your mouth to someone and that person told another person ? Well that's what happened. Then they get angry that everyone at work know personal business but they brought it upon themselves.
Oh and don't be surprised if you're a victim to someone like this. You think that you can trust them with personal information and before you know it they bring up a very emotional situation in front of a group of workers. Like you did not confide in them. I'm sure anyone would be mad as hell, I would be beyond mad, more like psycho.
You want to act like a civilized adult and say something to the person instead of slapping the taste out of whoever it is mouth. Violence solves nothing. Best thing to do is talk to them and let them know what they did was inappropriate. Be prepared for the person to deny to the 10th power that they said anything wrong.
We know you can't change their mind. So I say the person can go fall on something sharp. I will never confide in that person again and the only words they will hear out my mouth to them is "Good Morning" and Good Night". They might be very lucky that I even say those 2 greetings at all. I'm not getting over it, we are not hanging out all buddy buddy. That person to me evaporated off the face of the earth. You don't exist to me. Life goes on without them.
Remember some people mouths are W.M.D to people reputations ( Weapons of Mass Destruction)
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